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FIRST DATE / NYC
dinner$72
drinks$36
transit$12
tip$22
TOTAL$142
hours of median-wage work
NYC5.1h
Austin3.2h
Chicago3.7h
The $100 first date is normal now
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The Cost of a First Date Index
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Ayush Upneja
@upneja · draft
A first date used to be a low-stakes way to see if there was anything there. Now in some cities it’s basically a small invoice with eye contact. I’m building a First Date Index: coffee, drinks, dinner, transit, tip — and how many hours of work it costs.
what the visualization is
A literal receipt for a first date, next to a bar showing how many hours of work it costs in each city.
data shape
Numbeo price basket + CPI categories + BLS median hourly wage + local transit fares.
animation
Receipt items print one at a time, total stamps in red, then cities rank by hours worked.
why it works
The punchline is instantly legible: dating has a cover charge.
Thread beats
- 1.The most honest unit is not dollars. It is hours of median-wage work.
- 2.A city can have plenty of singles and still be a bad dating market if every attempt to meet has a high cover charge.
- 3.Next version: pick your city and date type, then compare against rent and wages.
Sources to pull
- •Numbeo city price snapshots
- •BLS CPI: food away from home, alcohol, admissions
- •BLS OEWS metro median hourly wage
- •MIT Living Wage Calculator
- •transit agency fare pages / NTD
CTA
Reply with the city/date basket I should price first.
visualization package
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FIRST DATE / NYC
dinner$72
drinks$36
transit$12
tip$22
TOTAL$142
hours of median-wage work
NYC5.1h
Austin3.2h
Chicago3.7h
Carousel frame4:5
frame 1
The $100 first date is normal now
A first date used to be a low-stakes way to see if there was anything there.
Vertical animation9:16
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hook appears
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data reveals
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labels snap in
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CTA end card
datecost.mp4
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